Women are always identified as feminine that is naturally embedded to them since they were born. They were shaped contradictory different personalities with man, so the famous book stated that “Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars” which implies that both men and women are obviously different not as the matter of gender, but it’s more complex than that. Women are the gentlest creature ever, they act with their heart rather than logicality, and they are so elegance in many ways. What does exactly the things which could make women as the gentlest and the most elegance creature on earth, and what the fact nowadays tells about this phenomenon? Do they still exist as the elegance who ones always tell?
What makes women look elegance are the way how they keep their secrets from others and their independency in handling everything ahead. First thing first is about how they keep their secrets. Well, the term “secret” in this case is not literally “secret”, but it has wide meanings. Women who are not easily talking or exposing about everything they feel, all their personal life, their privacy, and all the things related to theirs to others can be considered as mysterious. Consequently, this mysterious atmosphere they built will make them far more elegance because they could divide which is something that they should tell and which is not. They are likeable when they could cover themselves and being a listener rather that talking too many unimportant and useless things like gossiping and other women things usually do related to talking habit. This talking habit which grows uncontrollably will only lead them into the one whom easily to guess and no more special to others because they have already opened up themselves freely to public (publicity). The other “secret” means not exposing your physical appearance which makes you as the public intake for all the sights. However, the facts show that women nowadays grow as far more aggressive in many ways so that they stand as no more elegance. The brand of elegance and gentle which always embed to women is continuously disappeared from our life. The other thing what makes women look elegance is that their independency in handling everything. Believe it or not, women were born as a tough in many ways they do, but not all the women realize this because they still stuck in the old-saying stated that women are weak. This conventional thought makes them depend more to others, and they tend don’t believe in their capability in handling everything ahead. Actually, they who are brave enough to take a risk and stand steadily facing the obstacles in this life by their own feet, independently, will make them look stronger, and this is the other way to define “elegance” as the aspect of women who are considered as feminine. Unfortunately, what the fact tells today is that women are prone to “play save” in their life. Well, I think it’s not too late if women try to fix all the condition better so that they could stand still as the creature with their elegance, gentle, but also tough, and they are not only living as the creature who must be protected by the men, but also as the one who must be respected their existentialism as well.
On my last word, to be or not to be is the matter of choice of our personal life, but we cannot stand away from the values and the nature of being a woman. It’s our duty to maintain it. Don’t let the word “freedom” kills our ideology of being woman.
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