Don't get married unless you are 'ready'.

Something just came across my mind, "Marriage".

It never happened to me to think or even to consider my life will soon end with becoming wife of  Mr. Who.
No, I mean I just found out that my life is getting closer to that big event of everyone's life. They said that marriage is the highest accomplishment in human's life. I previously depicted marriage life as awesome as 'Cinderella' or 'Snow White and the 7 dwarfs", but then it turns to freak me out when I should face the truth that 'Getting Married' is unbelievably not just that awesome as it's depicted.

I am Indonesian after all which people give too much concern into technical things that so called cultural stuffs whatsoever. I don't give too much shit, though. It's just...I tell you, marriage is a gate for you to enter a complex labyrinth space; once you get in, there's no turning back. No, I don't mean to exaggerate or to freak you out. It's just to reconsider your decision before it's too late. Late to regret. Importantly, you should know  very well person who is going to marry you; his/her family, background and other small things which would possibly grow bigger if you can start to talk about them  and even you should know about yourself; whether you will be able to mingle in such family, to love them as big as you love your own family, whether you could live the way they live and the other way around and whether their family could gladly receive and treat you as good as they treat their children. Those things should be fully considered before you step to marriage life. By the way, I suggested you to consider those things, but suddenly those shits scared me much. Errr...  

OK. Overall, the most important thing is commitment. Base your commitments strongly so you could build your life steadily unbreakable. Don't forget to put faith on it.

After all, hopefully we will make a happy sweet long-lasting family! :-)

Cheers!